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What ‘Road Rules’ Wrought

Thirty years ago, MTV sent camera-friendly kids on a first-of-its-kind road trip, turbocharging the reality TV fame factory that powers culture today.

By Emma Goldberg

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Your Morning Coffee, in a Bucket

Across the United States, cafes are serving jumbo-size coffee drinks in plastic buckets. The gimmick is working.

By Yola Mzizi

image: Among the cafes serving coffee drinks in buckets are Noctua Coffee in Imperial, Mo.; Dulce Vida in Tulsa, Okla.; and Wicked Southern Coffee in Salem, Conn.

Do We Have to Thank My Brother-in-Law for His Gifts if We Hate His Politics?

A couple’s passive efforts to keep a relative at arm’s length, like quietly donating his gifts to charity, are not being received as intended.

By Philip Galanes

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Are You Watching Video Podcasts?

The New York Times wants to know how people are consuming this relatively new kind of content.

By Joseph Bernstein

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Men’s Wear That Melds Colors, Patterns and Proportions

Visual contrasts made a suit look both fresh and nostalgic.

By Simbarashe Cha

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Could You Have Landed a Job at Vogue in the ’90s?

To work for Anna Wintour in Vogue's glory days, you had to know a little bit of everything. Take the quiz to find out if you would have made the grade.

By Michael M. Grynbaum

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Yes, Gen Z Is Staring at You. The Question Is Why.

A generational debate has started over Gen Z’s tendency to respond to various social situations with a long and intentional stare.

By Nicole Stock

image: Among the people discussing the Gen Z stare on TikTok are Valerie Jefferson, Efe Ahworegba and Lanie Beams.

Collateral Damage in Federal Work Force Cuts: Summer Interns

At the very beginning of their professional lives, some young people have had their summer plans derailed by the Department of Government Efficiency.

By Callie Holtermann

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The Harvard-Educated Linguist Breaking Down ‘Skibidi’ and ‘Rizz’

Adam Aleksic, who posts as Etymology Nerd on social media, argues in a new book that algorithms are reshaping the English language.

By Callie Holtermann

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Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Thought I Was Straight’

Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words

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How to Keep Love Alive, With Rob Delaney of ‘Dying for Sex’

The Emmy-nominated actor talks about his role as the messy-but-sexy “Neighbor Guy,” and learning to pay “focused attention” in his own marriage.

By Anna Martin, Reva Goldberg, Emily Lang, Davis Land, Christina Djossa, Amy Pearl, Sara Curtis, Jen Poyant, Sonia Herrero, Dan Powell, Elisheba Ittoop, Marion Lozano, Rowan Niemisto and Carole Sabouraud

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Where Have Men Gone? We’re Right Here.

Readers respond to a Modern Love essay that asks why so many men have retreated from dating and relationships.

By Daniel Jones

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Finally, Another Woman Designer Gets a Big Brand

Meryll Rogge takes over at Marni, halting a backward trend.

By Vanessa Friedman

image: Meryll Rogge, the new creative director at Marni.

Traveling Ultralight: How to Pack a Personal Item

As more airlines charge for traditional carry-on bags, those who don’t want to pay need to fit everything into a tote, small duffel bag, daypack or roomy purse. Here’s how.

By Elaine Glusac

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Catherine, Princess of Wales, Dresses for a New (Life) Stage

Appearances at Wimbledon and a French state visit symbolize a new kind of style.

By Vanessa Friedman

image: The Princess of Wales chose a Christian Dior signature look for the French state visit.

How Are the Summer Interns Making It Work?

A new crop of young people are in New York and ready to “hustle” in all kinds of fields that will have them.

By The Styles Desk and Vincent Alban

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A Reality Star’s Path From Villain to Unlikely Voice of Reason

Kristen Doute made her share of enemies on “Vanderpump Rules,” but as “The Valley” finishes its second season, she has seemingly reinvented herself.

By Jessica Roy

image: Kristen Doute has had an eventful year. The second season of “The Valley” is about to conclude and she recently gave birth to a daughter, Kaia.

Would You Pay Nearly $9,000 for a Puzzle?

Some of the most devoted hobbyists are willing to shell out big bucks for what one called “a couture puzzle.”

By Jennifer Bradley Franklin

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Amanda Anisimova Tried a Normal Life. Now She’s in the Wimbledon Final.

The 23-year-old star could be the first American woman to win the tournament since 2016. A self-imposed sabbatical may have helped her get there.

By Scott Cacciola

image: Amanda Anisimova, who beat Aryna Sabalenka in their semifinal at Wimbledon on Thursday, was born in New Jersey but grew up in Florida.

Refined, Freaky, Fabulous: 20 Unforgettable Looks at Couture Week

They included glittery blood, metallic masks and a beating heart.

By The Styles Desk

image: Highlights from couture week included, clockwise from left, Schiaparelli’s hulking heart necklace, Iris van Herpen’s gossamer confections, a gold sculptural Raul Mishra dress and Robert Wun’s “bloodied” white gown.

The Phone Call That Led to Love

Katherine Doyle, an NBC White House reporter, and Alex deGrasse, a political strategist and adviser, unexpectedly found love on a work-related call.

By Ama Sarpomaa

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Art Led the Way to a Very Hot, and Spicy First Date

David Harris, an artist, made spicy curry chicken with Indian chili powder that Heather Phillips, who loved his artwork, tolerated, while he was too nervous to eat.

By Rosalie R. Radomsky

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‘I Intend to Keep My Baby’

The diagnosis was dire, but the choice was ours to make.

By Cleyvis Natera

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After Years of Friendship, a First Date Wasn’t Necessary

Janet Mercel and Daniel Wisner’s relationship slowly turned romantic after years of “being best friends,” Mr. Wisner said. “And always wanting the best for one another.”

By Donna Kim

image: Janet Mercel and Daniel Wisner exchanged vows on June 21 at Podere Ciona, a winery in Gaiole in Chianti, Italy. Justin Wisner, Mr. Wisner’s brother, tied the couple’s hands together using a silk scarf during the ceremony.

It Took Years, Some Electrical Help, Then Came the Spark

Nancy Marshall, a professor of art history, had endured the sudden loss of two partners. As she healed, she kept running into Chris Murphy, an electrician and local artist she admired.

By Shivani Vora

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What Is ‘Aura Farming’? This Tween Will Show You.

Thanks to his dance moves on the front of a boat, a young Indonesian boy has become an internet sensation, and is now a “tourism ambassador.”

By Benjamin Hoffman

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The Original Birkin Sells for $10 Million

A lively bidding war led to the Hermès prototype, which was created for the actress Jane Birkin, selling for far more than expected.

By Alisha Haridasani Gupta and Marisa Meltzer

image: The Hermès Birkin prototype was created in 1984 for the actress Jane Birkin and has unique details like her initials and a nail clipper that belonged to her.

What Might a Billionaire Lose at? Turns Out, Tennis.

Bill Ackman, an outspoken 59-year-old financier, competed in a professional tournament.

By Jesse McKinley

image: Bill Ackman, a billionaire financier, competed in the Hall of Fame Open in Newport, R.I., on Wednesday. He was the doubles partner for Jack Sock, a retired professional.

What’s Your Sign to Keep Swiping?

Some frustrated singles found dating-app inspiration in an unlikely place: Zohran Mamdani’s success on Hinge.

By Gina Cherelus

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From Girl Boss to No Boss

They reached the heights of corporate success. Now some women are trying to redefine what ambition looks like.

By Issie Lapowsky and OK McCausland

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Magazine Nirvana in Manhattan’s Financial District

A trove of periodicals is available for anyone to peruse at Library180, a project by two printheads who met as interns at a fashion magazine.

By Quinn Moreland and Daniel Terna

image: “We started in magazines when digesting print was a shared cultural experience,” Mr. Chaiken said.

What Is ‘Reparenting’ and Should You Try It?

The concept, centered around healing your “inner child,” is catchy. Here’s what experts have to say.

By Christina Caron

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A.I. Griefbots Are Just Our Latest Attempt to Talk to the Dead

Emotional needs and technology have kept us searching for connections to the other side.

By Colin Dickey

image: Luminous apparitions, like the one “conjured” by the medium known as Eva C. in 1912, were once commonplace and a part of the Spiritualism movement, which contended that the dead aren’t as far away as we think.

Demna Says a Star-Studded Goodbye to Balenciaga

The designer’s farewell show came complete with Kim Kardashian, Nicole Kidman, Lauren Sánchez Bezos — and other greatest hits.

By Vanessa Friedman

image: Kim Kardashian in Balenciaga, couture, fall 2025